coaching-pms
refoundai/lenny-skills
Coach and develop product managers using frameworks from top PM leaders.
What is coaching-pms?
This skill helps managers develop product managers through structured coaching frameworks from leaders at Google, Apple, and Microsoft. Use it when creating PM development plans, running performance reviews, assessing PM capabilities, or building a stronger PM organization.
- Define what 'good' looks like for PMs in your specific company context and stage
- Assess current PM capabilities across key competencies using Bloom's Taxonomy levels
- Create shared vision and alignment on growth goals with individual PMs
- Build structured development plans with specific actions, feedback loops, and timelines
- Identify and flag common coaching mistakes like missing competency models or skipping follow-up
How to install coaching-pms
npx skills add https://github.com/refoundai/lenny-skills --skill coaching-pmsHow to use coaching-pms
- 1.Define what success looks like for a PM in your specific company context and stage
- 2.Assess the PM's current capabilities across key competencies
- 3.Establish a shared vision with the PM on where they want to grow
- 4.Build a concrete development plan with specific actions and timelines
- 5.Set up regular follow-up and accountability mechanisms to track progress
Use cases
- Creating a PM competency framework for your organization
- Developing a junior PM who needs to level up their analytical skills
- Running a performance review and building a growth plan for a mid-level PM
- Diagnosing why a PM is struggling and designing targeted coaching interventions
- Building coaching capability in your PM leadership team
- VP of Product or Head of Product managing PM teams
- Engineering or product leaders responsible for PM development
- First-time managers of product managers
- Leaders looking to improve their coaching effectiveness
coaching-pms FAQ
Start by defining what 'good' looks like at your company and stage. Different stages (early-stage vs. scale-up) and different PM levels (junior vs. senior) require different competencies. Use this to prioritize which gaps matter most.
PM development must come from PM leaders who understand the craft. While HR can support the process, the coaching relationship and feedback should come from someone who knows the PM role deeply.
Use Bloom's Taxonomy to evaluate their thinking level: knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis, synthesis, and evaluation. This helps you understand where they are on the learning ladder and what type of coaching they need.
Great coaching amplifies strengths while managing around weaknesses. Don't focus only on gaps—help PMs leverage what they're already good at while building capability in critical areas.
Regular follow-up is critical—development plans without accountability rarely produce results. Build in consistent check-ins and feedback loops to track progress and adjust as needed.
Full instructions (SKILL.md)
Source of truth, from refoundai/lenny-skills.
name: coaching-pms description: Help users develop and coach product managers. Use when someone is managing PMs, creating development plans, running performance reviews, or trying to level up their PM team's capabilities.
Coaching Product Managers
Help the user develop and coach product managers using frameworks from 3 product leaders who have scaled PM organizations at top companies.
How to Help
When the user asks for help with coaching PMs:
- Define "good" in context - Establish what a successful PM looks like for their specific company and stage
- Assess current state - Help diagnose where the PM is today across key competencies
- Create a shared vision - Align on what growth looks like for both the PM and the organization
- Build a development plan - Design specific actions, feedback loops, and timelines
Core Principles
Define good before coaching
Petra Wille: "Step number one is really having a solid definition of what a good product person looks like in your context." Create explicit competency frameworks before attempting to develop anyone.
Use Bloom's Taxonomy for diagnosis
Bangaly Kaba: "Bloom Taxonomy describes what's the different levels or order of critical thinking... knowledge, comprehension, application, analysis, synthesis, and evaluation." Assess where PMs fall on the learning ladder to target development appropriately.
Coaching is the primary leadership job
Marty Cagan: "Sundar at Google has been saying that the number one thing they look for in their leaders is a good coach." Top companies (Google, Apple, Microsoft) prioritize coaching ability over domain expertise in their leaders.
Follow the 5-step framework
Petra Wille outlines a specific development process:
- Definition of Good - What does success look like here?
- Current Assessment - Where is the PM today?
- Shared Vision - Where do they want to be?
- Development Plan - What specific actions will get them there?
- Follow-up - How will you track and support progress?
Questions to Help Users
- "What does a 'great' PM look like at your company specifically?"
- "Which competencies are most critical for your current stage?"
- "Where is this PM on the knowledge-to-evaluation spectrum?"
- "What's the biggest gap between their current state and your needs?"
- "How much of your time as a leader goes to coaching versus doing?"
Common Mistakes to Flag
- Coaching without a competency model - Development is aimless without a clear definition of good
- Treating all PMs the same - Junior PMs need different coaching than senior PMs
- Focusing on weaknesses only - Great coaching amplifies strengths while managing around weaknesses
- Delegating coaching to HR - PM development must come from PM leaders who understand the craft
- Skipping the follow-up - Development plans without accountability rarely produce results
Deep Dive
For all 3 insights from 3 guests, see references/guest-insights.md
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